What Guys Never Notice on a Date!
Ladies, what is it exactly that a guy look at, when you’re out on a date with him? Doesn’t matter if it’s the first, Third, or the ninetieth. You may be stressing up on a lot of things while you’re decking for him. But there are a few important things to you, that may not matter to your man. Or worse, to be brutally frank, he may not even realise it!
Your labels
Jimmy Choo shoes? And… wait a minute, is that a Balenciaga handbag? Nice. But don’t bother clinging to it when you’re out with him. He’s never going to know about it, And that could be the first thing he’d throw out of the couch when he wants to get frisky in his place! So unless you want half your mind on your jimmy choo’s and his pet dog, and the other half on him, don’t bother going haute couture on him.
The importance of gifts or gift wraps
Men do think about giving women gift, but they don’t really put in an effort to pick the perfect wrapper. Men think it’s a total waste of time because it’s going to come off anyways. As long as the present is great, it’s all cool for them. (But then why do they care about how hot our dress looks)
Your new haircut
So you took yourself out, snazzed and mussed your hair up perfectly to get yourself that clean ‘got up from bed’ ruffle, at one of the biggie salons wher cocoa tastes like it was straight from the Aztecs. Sweet! But if you’re going to primp yourself up that good, dont’t hate your date if he’s not going to compliment it. Heck, don’t feel worse if he doesn’t even realise that you’ve got a new cut.
Your Hidden flaws
Can you see it? Your jeans are feeling a wee bit extra tight today? you’re sure? Hmm… and we’re guessing you checked that with your crystal designer vernier callipers? Lady, your man doesn’t know if you’ve got a new hairdo, how could he possibly know about that buttered cookie you had with breakfast?
The effort you’ve taken to look nice
It may have taken you three houres to look the way you looked on your date. The clean shave, the scented waters, the perfect curls, and the minutes, and another five in front of the mirror. He just wouldn’t be able to know how much you’ve worked on yourself to look that good for him. So don’t bother about it. But when he says “you look beautiful”, he really means it! Awwww!
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What Guys Always Notice!
Your assets
Is it your first date? It doesn’t matter though. A guy would have grazed your rack or your super-sexy back at least a few times when you’re not looking every guy you’re dating would check you out at some point of time on the date.
Skin
How much skin are you flashing? All guys would definitely notice this. But don’t be too certain that the equation of ‘more skin equals more attention’ always works. Some guys would break into an uncomfortable sweat if you do a ‘Basic Instinct’!
Your aura
Are you in control of the situation? Can you handle it if you’re halfway through a date, and both of you bump into a close friend of his? A guy loves it when she can laugh back at his friend and show that she’s ah.. a ‘woman of substance’. He want all his pals to know that you are the hottest thing around, and he’d definitely fall promptly in love if he sees your positive aura, whatever may be the situation.
Your cute habits
Do you have cute way of smiling, or tucking your hair behind your ear? Or is it something else? Guys dig that! And if there’s one thing that a guy takes back as a memory from the date, it would be this one.
Your smell
He may not know too many of your labels, but his nose can always recognise a good fragrance. A woman’s fragrance is intoxicating, and a man could go giddy while whispering near your ears.
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Very truth the point about the women’s fragrance
I prefer my women to smell like themselves. Don’t really like the smell of perfume. But if they have to use it use it SPARINGLY.
i think the title should be ‘what most guys usually dont notice on a date!’
haha, so true. As a guy I agree with this list 100%.
After a 3 hours flight to go home from our 1st date, when she called to ask how was my flight the 1st thing i said was “what perfume do you use?”
So, yes. Your smell is always in our memory. That smell of your hair after a shower, that smell of your skin in the mourning. All of them!
You hit it on the head, especially the shoes thing. Guys don’t care! We definitely notice your assets, your aura, your cute habits – every time. I also look for sexy confidence – it’s an attitude, and has nothing to do with the clothes you wear. (Sexy clothes help. But there’s got to be more going on than that! It’s how you smile and move, and what you smile and move to…)
I’m a male. and i highly disagree with most of the stuff on here. not all men are like this. it gives a false idea of what men want from women
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(But then why do they care about how hot our dress looks)
Honestly? We don’t care how hot your dress looks. We care about how hot you look in the dress. That’s presentation, not wrapping.
I notice most of the stuff in the “What Guys Never Notice” (along with all in the “What Guys Always Notice”) section- save the slightly tighter jeans. I notice when my girlfriend gets a haircut, I notice what kind of labels she wears, and I definitely pay attention to gift wrapping.
I really didn’t notice stuff like this on dates… now i do
I have to admit that most of the things are true. As for me I want to see how much she cares about me. If she is really listening. One can tell if the relationship is a blessing or a mishap about to happen from certain subtle remarks, body movements. A good rump would be good but for me not on a first date. I want to know that that comes naturally with a sense of “Where were you all my life?” She must show that I matter and nobody has her mind occupied. Lastly when i open that car door and put her inside i want to see her stretch across and open mine for me. Then I know that she’s a keeper. Thank you.
Most of this is basically true, but saying men don’t notice labels is stereotyping slightly. Rather we regard them differently to women- wearing ‘intricate’ blahniks and carrying one of those god-awful D&G-plate patent bags will be noticed, but often not in a good way- many men regard conspicuous designerism as a bad thing.