Comments on: Words Women Use While Arguing http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing Relationship Talks, Love Chats, Romantic Discussions, Dating Conversations Sat, 02 May 2009 09:03:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: Dave http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-2906 Dave Sat, 02 May 2009 09:03:13 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-2906 I lived with my ex-girlfriend for seven years before I left her. I left her because of her ever-increasing need to argue with me about nothing. We must have had about 400-500 arguments in that time. She couldn't argue properly, couldn't debate a point, just came out with stupid, meaningless statements to make me think she was in the right when she wasn't. But I never once heard her say any of those things you've written about. I lived with my ex-girlfriend for seven years before I left her. I left her because of her ever-increasing need to argue with me about nothing.

We must have had about 400-500 arguments in that time. She couldn’t argue properly, couldn’t debate a point, just came out with stupid, meaningless statements to make me think she was in the right when she wasn’t.

But I never once heard her say any of those things you’ve written about.

]]> By: Michael "Bishop" Emery http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-988 Michael "Bishop" Emery Mon, 26 May 2008 02:33:53 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-988 I like this. In fact, I am going to place it on my blog (giving a link back to your site, of course) so it can reach even more people. Be well, and Live Unleashed! www.alphaunleashed.com I like this. In fact, I am going to place it on my blog (giving a link back to your site, of course) so it can reach even more people.

Be well, and Live Unleashed!

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]]> By: Al http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-811 Al Tue, 06 May 2008 20:45:53 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-811 All of those tactics are just different forms of "Games". Instead of discussing the problem and reaching a solution, they're going for the "Win". ie. power. All of those tactics are just different forms of “Games”. Instead of discussing the problem and reaching a solution, they’re going for the “Win”. ie. power.

]]> By: Alyssa http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-809 Alyssa Tue, 06 May 2008 19:27:33 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-809 You know, I don't think I've ever used those while I'm arguing with someone. You know, I don’t think I’ve ever used those while I’m arguing with someone.

]]> By: Mary http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-806 Mary Tue, 06 May 2008 18:06:40 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-806 My favorite way to end an argument is to just tell him that there are some things that we will have to agree to disagree on. No offense, but some fights are worth winning, but most over trivial crap really are not. The biggest problem with most women is that they expect husbands and boyfriends to read their minds, because their mommy and daddy did when they were growing up, by always appearing to understand what their little girls would need to make them feel better. Of course they knew, they raised the girl. What most women and girls don't get, is that they expect those guys who have only known them for a few months to a few years to be just like their parents in understanding what will make them happy. They aren't, and so it will never happen. They have to learn guy speak. Tell the dude in plain simple direct statements what you want and want you mean. Don't hint. Don't scream. Don't yell. It took me raising two sons, and living with one husband, and various other male relatives to understand how to communicate with men. Unforturnately, they still don't try to always understand me. Oh, well, I can't win them all. My favorite way to end an argument is to just tell him that there are some things that we will have to agree to disagree on. No offense, but some fights are worth winning, but most over trivial crap really are not.
The biggest problem with most women is that they expect husbands and boyfriends to read their minds, because their mommy and daddy did when they were growing up, by always appearing to understand what their little girls would need to make them feel better. Of course they knew, they raised the girl.
What most women and girls don’t get, is that they expect those guys who have only known them for a few months to a few years to be just like their parents in understanding what will make them happy. They aren’t, and so it will never happen. They have to learn guy speak. Tell the dude in plain simple direct statements what you want and want you mean. Don’t hint. Don’t scream. Don’t yell. It took me raising two sons, and living with one husband, and various other male relatives to understand how to communicate with men. Unforturnately, they still don’t try to always understand me. Oh, well, I can’t win them all.

]]> By: dan http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing/comment-page-1#comment-790 dan Tue, 06 May 2008 16:19:21 +0000 http://www.lovechitchat.com/words-women-use-while-arguing#comment-790 A woman may cry out of frustration, tiredness, and many other reasons than "deciding to play a game." This shallow remark only conditions men to think they are being manipulated and it continues adversarial communication. The shopping thing saying "because I am a woman" is stupid, I agree,. Many women see too many ads, and men expect women, even if they earn much less, to be well dressed, made up, soft skin etc. Women are hearing all the time that men are "visual" (now it is coming out women are too, when they are allowed to be) so women are always under pressure to be this image. Men are coming more under pressure in this regard, but nothing like what society does to women. Who gains, the advertisers and sellers of these products to women. A woman may cry out of frustration, tiredness, and many other reasons than “deciding to play a game.” This shallow remark only conditions men to think they are being manipulated and it continues adversarial communication.

The shopping thing saying “because I am a woman” is stupid, I agree,. Many women see too many ads, and men expect women, even if they earn much less, to be well dressed, made up, soft skin etc. Women are hearing all the time that men are “visual” (now it is coming out women are too, when they are allowed to be) so women are always under pressure to be this image. Men are coming more under pressure in this regard, but nothing like what society does to women. Who gains, the advertisers and sellers of these products to women.

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